I am all for manners and saying hello as you come across someone in your home is one I promote with my own child. HOWEVER, your little one just woke up so I think she should be given a pass by dcmom, besides, it was rude of HER to point this out and not her job to correct your child. If she wanted to exchange hello's she should have started with herself saying good morning and then have her child do so as well (if old enough). This woman should really just mind her own business.