Wow, this is quite a toss up. I have been on both sides of the fence and I personally don't agree with parents dropping their kids off when they have a day off ...at least not for the full day. If it's for an appointment or something, totally understandable. When it's to go home and rest, not understandable. If you have errands or cleaning to do, fine, do it and come pick up early.

The family in particular that I was thinking of when I asked this question is the type that drop their kid off as early as possible and pick her up as late as possible when they are off. Mom is home right now, there's a new baby AND grandma is visiting. Obviously this child knows that she could be at home but is sent here anyways. It's a struggle to get her in the door every morning. I know I get paid either way but I just find it cruel to the child. The parents talk about how she's been acting out at home and I don't blame her.

When I had DD#1 at a day home, I cherished any extra time I had with her. DH picked her up early because he was off earlier than most people every day. Any time I had a day off, she was with me. Unless I had an appointment (was pregnant with #2 at the time) I picked her up early. As it's already been mentioned, I think kids sense when something is different and then we are the ones who have to deal with it. Not fair!

I am very lucky though to have the majority of my families appreciate the extra time with their kids. I have one little guy today basically for nap time while mom is attending a funeral. I also had another little one this morning for a few hours. He was dropped off late and then picked up super early since dad just had an appointment and then mom got off early. I love these families!!