Thank you Playfelt! I think I am just stressed because I am in a bad situation with a child now and could have avoided it if I had followed my instincts at the interview. Which I guess should comfort me because I did have the right instincts and just chose to talk them away. I will NOT do that again! I will definitely think about the things you mentioned for the interview...I generally do well in interviews and get a good feel for the family, try to observe them with the child etc...but I am now overthinking everything because I want at all costs to avoid a stressful kid!