I'm a little concerned that the boy runs from his dad, screaming and crying and clings to you on a regular basis.....seems odd to me. My DCKs love me but never have an issue going with Mom or Dad. I know this is a little off the topic of this thread, but are there any concerns about mistreatment of DCK by Dad? I've had kids cry and show resistance being pulled away from an activity now and then, but never with consistency or accumulative drama. And Dad's reaction sounded a little like trying to spread blame. I don't know....could be totally off the mark, but it just struck me as very odd. In your shoes, I'd probably be keeping a close eye out for evidence of that kind of thing....just in case.