This is the first time I'm starting a child that has an older sibling already in my care. I'm hopeing it will be an easier transition.

I have found in the past when I transition 12 month olds they cry all day regardless of the transition period. I don't know if it cuts down on the amound of crying, or only prolongs the time it takes them to get comfortable.

I also think transition is mostly for the parents benefit. Both of my current mat leave parents are used to me transitioning in slowly, but I'm not a fan of it anymore. I'm wondering how I can word it to them so they're comfortable with cold turkey.

I like the idea of the baby coming at pick up. I think that's all they will need, especially with a sibling here! But i'm not sure that's all mom will need.