I feel the same way many days so you are not alone. I dont have any young kids of my own anymore so my evenings are my own but i feel so drained at the end of the day i have no energy to do anything. Daycare can be a lonely job. Is there something that you love to do that you can do at naptime? I love to craft and sew so I try to have somethig ready to do at naptime to relieve nsome stress. Learn to knit, or start a cross stitch (its easy) or grab a tea and read and leave the dishes and tidying until later. I find th most important thing is that i insist my hubby takes on some of the household chores. I dont have anyone to talk to durig the day either, all my friends work outside the home. hope your day gets better