It's so unfortunate when parents do this. It completely destroys and trust or respect. We never look at these types of parents the same way after they pull something like this.

I had a client drop off their child with a soother in their mouth one day. Left very quickly! We took out the soother after she left and she had a huge rash around her mouth. I checked her hands and feet and she's rashing everywhere!

Lucky for me (and the parent) she was shocked when I called her, thought she just had a mouth rash from use of the soother. She sent a grandparent to pick up and they were here within minutes. At least she was hugely appologetic. The child was off for another 48 hours and went to the dr in the mean time so the parent was redeemed.