All my daycare kids come fed. When mine wake up, they eat as they wish. I have a gate up in the hallway between daycare and the kitchen so the little ones aren't standing right in there watching mine eat...lol...but I do not feel bad or obligated to re-feed anyone just because mine are having their breakfast. Snack is within 2 hours of everyone arriving and they aren't really hungry - they just want to eat for the sake of eating because someone else is. There was a time it bothered me but not anymore.