The issue isn't him "deciding" if I do the drop off, I am supposed to do it everyday. It's whether the traffic cooperates, he is able to get the kids in the car and going in the morning etc. I think he just needs to get up earlier and deal with it.

I originally put the plan in place that he has to be at dc by 8:30 (school drop off is 8:40) but let me know 15 mins before hand (by text) if he will be on time based on their morning or traffic. Now I think I will just tell him he needs to be at the dc by 8:15 or he is doing the drop off. The wife is the one who is paying me anyways and I think his "fly by the seat of his pants nature" was/is one if their issues.