I'm currently going through a termination at my daycare and being a "people pleaser" doesn't help me much with my emotions about the entire ordeal. Sometimes you just have to let em go! You have to put your family & the daycare first. I agree with the other comments about it taking time, but for your own sanity when you know it's time to drop the termination bomb(pending this all doesn't work out do it! The child is a package: he comes with parents it the whole package isn't jiving for one reason or 10, just cut the cord. A few days of stress & possibly parents begging to "take him back" will be well worth it in the end. Best of luck to you