We already did meet and spoke for over an hour and I addressed all her concerns.....My problem is all the things that she is concerned about are things that have always been going on for the entire year that her child has been coming here and are invalid they have no backing at all. As far as my daughter goes I was explaining to her that im allowed 5 kids plus my own which puts me at 7 and she's asking that I drop 2 kids and sacrifice a enjoyable summer so that I can keep her child she shouldn't be concerned about my daughter but its not in the best interest of hers that my daughter not have anyone to play with as that make my day more unmanageable. So I asked her to keep her here until the summer (cause her concerns are only about the summer) so I have time to fill her spot and she has time to find a daycare that suits all her needs and requirements (good luck) and we can try our best to remain friend and do this in a way that everyone involve wins including the kids, she has yet given me a response and I am hoping for the sake of our friendship she will also see that its thee best solution for everyone involved.