I have a dcg is 5 and very independant. She started a couple of months ago and last week at drop off Mom says, " this is the first day she has ever worn underwear!" Not as in she is finally toilet trained, but as in she has been coming with just pants on and not underwear. I am quite upset that this was not brought up earlier, as I think underwear is quite important. I explained that she must be wearing underwear here and definitely when she goes to school.

I she wore underwear for the rest of the week and Tuesday she came with no underwear on and her pants kept sliding down and showing her rear end. We went through her bag, but no extra pairs. I again explained that she needs underwear on when she is here, Mom said she the dcg promised to wear it the following day.

Yesterday her brother was sick so they did not come. Today, no underwear. They did not say anything, just waited for me to notice. Luckily there was a pair in her bag.

Am I the only on who finds this gross and part of being ready for the day? Or am I just overreacting and being a prude?