I have a dcd that is engaged to my dcm that has a split family as well. He is verbally abusive to me through text but when I call him out he apologizes, and makes excuses (typical abuser). I have two families to consider, but I am sick and tired of not being respected by him. He picks up past my close time and I have reminded the whole family that this is not ok, he will not look after his own kid when he is off, nor will the dcm, as she says it is his kid not her`s. I have it stated in my handbook that I am not a babysitter, I am a child care provider. I am here for when you need to work but when you are off your child will benefit from being with you. Need less to say...I am at my end, I am ready to give them notice, but am terrified of what the dcd will do, and I like the dcm`s family and that dcd, and their dc kids. What should I do that I haven`t already done. Even my own husband does not want to have anything to do with the whole lot! Help me!