@ Playfelt. How I envy you with being able to eat and have a tea, while they play. Not in my world. Even thought I've just given them all breakfast, they hover and I end up sharing. Just can't turn them away.

On a positive note, the one family is in fact staying. Their in-laws have offered to watch the child each morning. Personally I think it is great for everyone. Child I adore gets to stay, grandparents get a little morning visit each day and most importantly I will be able to start my day off on a good foot... enjoying a relaxing breakfast.