A potential employer looking for a back up caregiver??

(I don't say sitter or nanny, because realistically its only needed when my husband and I work overnights or weekends at the same time, and I hate the word sitter, and I say employer because if I do not find a dayhome that wants to work with this, and I know most don't I will be technically this person's employer)
You will be this persons CLIENT not her employer. Home Daycare Providers are business women, we are our own boss. We set the hours, make the rules and policies, you do not tell us how to run our business. Its like when you hire a lawyer or accounted, you are their client not their boss (employer).

If you want to be the employer then you will need to hire a Sitter or a Nanny, they follow your rules.

As for calling the lady that let you see her facebook page: If you are not comfortable with what you saw on the page then don't. If you are unsure of how you feel about what you saw then its really u to you, if you want to give her a chance or not.

As for looking up people on facebook, not unless the potential client lets me. But I don't take what I see at "face Value"