I have this 3 YO girl that has been wetting the bed ( nap and night with parents) for the past month or so. she had been potty trained since September last year and rarely had any accidents.

today, she woke up from her nap and her clothes were so wet that she was dripping... parents have provided sheets for her, a Pee pad but they wont provide pull ups. She is only allowed to drink 5 ounces of water in the morning ( but somehow still do those massive pee) Parents told me to remove privileges from her... also told me to remove PM snack time if she wets the bed... they told me to make her sit and watch while the other kiddos play outside in the afternoon...... It's kinda getting to torture...
It seams to me that the more I remove and that we tell her that she is a ''big''girl the more she wets.

Mom told me yesterday that they think it's because the is the only ''big'' girl coming to my dayhome and its because it's not stimulating enough for her... But everyday, we have 2 hours of playtime together where we sit down and do craft, puzzle, play games where we count, we talk about colours... and when the younger one are awake we play games that everybody can enjoy. I'm a little bit overwhelmed by all of this.. She said that they are thinking of pulling her out of the dayhome to find one with kids her age.

I don't know what to do to first help her stop wetting the bed and second not lose this family since they are one of my only 2 full time and the little girl is a sweetheart....
Helpppp!