[QUOTE=playfelt;3841]The problem is if the caregiver had told you there is a very good chance you would have left but also taken your son with you. Part of our job unfortunately is dealing with insecurities on both parent and child. And truely parents do not understand how a home daycare works

not necessarily... I believe that good communication is very important, and that anything can be said as long as it is done with respect.
Had she just said, no parents allowed I would have thought she had something to hide BUT had she said what all the other ladies said..security reasons etc I would have reacted ok I think.
I am a reasonable person. I have had to do this myself and it is all in how you say things when it comes to parents !