sounds like she's procastinating so there won't be a spot and then you will end up with boy. I totally get what your saying. All my kids are under 4 and I like it that way. I don't want schoolagers anymore. I have one mom who I hope she sends her kid somewhere else, he's 8 and I don't want to watch him as he doesn't get along with any of the kids, and mine don't like him.