Thanks for the encouragement, I hereby resolve to be tougher with the 3 year old. I think he is pretty used to getting to do whatever at home and doesn't get that daycare is not home. As for finding a new client I have a 1 year old starting in Sept and don't really want too many close in age, I just don't find I can handle it. So I guess for now I grin and bear it and hope from my ads a miracle child drops into my lap (the right age, right temperament etc.) wish me luck