Posting anonymously- strange parent

[gramma]

The only advice I can offer would be to keep this totally professional. If you could afford to lose the income I would say terminate immediately but i totally get that we cant do that sometimes. In your case if would say dont engage in small talk, dont encourage the relationship with the 9 year olds outside of daycare. have the child ready to go for pick up and in th emorning, just tell the child to say goodbye to daddy and start to walk away. As for the texting, send an email and make it look as though it has been sent to everyone saying that you do not have unlimited texting on your phone and that you must insist that text messages are to be sent only when you cannot be reached by phone. If it continues, you may have to talk to mom about it. Is your hubby home in the morning when he comes? maybe he could arrange to be standing at the door with you for a week and maybe dad will get the idea.