I'm with everyone else. I literally JUST went through the same dilemma. Had 4yob who mom was debating on leaving here for the summer or starting him with his new day home provider at the end of the school year. This boy literally drains everything out of me. Just so much energy and needs constant correcting. I kept asking myself 'could I do it for 2 more months?' 'Is it that bad?' And finally after thinking about it and listening to the ladies on the website I sucked it up and told the mom that I thought he would be better off somewhere else. She agreed and his last day is the end of June. I have such a sense of relief knowing that he will hopefully get the attention he needs somewhere else. Plus, our group will actually have more of me and I won't be so stressed out which leaves me being a better and happy mommy for my family.