UPDATE!!!

So I gave the family a very generous 4 weeks notice to find alternative care for their kids. It seems that they just aren't interested in trying to change anything, or work with me....They are somewhat of absentee parents in my opinion ie: they drop thier kids off at daycare 6:55am-6:00pm then they are in bed by 7:00pm, and from just chatting with them they seem to be with babysitters on the weekends A LOT! ....they don't seem to spend any time with them and it's rather heartbreaking to me. (but I'm the type that wants to spend 24/7 with my kids so maybe I just don't understand them...) anyways, now that I've given them notice I feel WAY better knowing that there is an end in site! the screaming and tantrums have not subsided, but I'm able to get through the days better now knowing that it will all be over soon!