You are so welcome Crys. I terminated a couple families in my first year and learned how to really only accept fantastic families into care after that. But after trying and trying to get through to a family for a year and a half I had to terminate them in Feb. or lose my mind. It was absolutely traumatic for me but also for the family because they had not heard me for the past year and a half, damn! Sometimes we really have to take care of ourselves.