I just wanted to update everybody.
This has resolved in the best possible way. She sent me an e-mail letting me know that she had gotten the message and apologizing for upsetting the balance of my daycare and that she understood. I saw her at our kids school and she spoke pleasantly to me (hey, how are ya?) and she found alternative care somehow. She does still owe me money, but she has always been one to pay late.. and I still have the girls belongings, but it's not that big of a deal. I'm willing to walk away from the money if it means ending this cordially. I am SO relieved. I understand that privately she may hate me, but I think it's more of a case of feeling disappointed and somewhat embarrassed. In any event, the most important thing is that the little girl doesn't seem to have been brought into it - she is still friendly with my daughter. So things could have been so much worse. I am very happy I decided to go ahead as now I feel just this huge sense of relief. It's over, it turned out to be not so terrible and I can now devote all of my time and energy to my other families and my own.
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