I was going to say the same thing as Sunnydays as I found this when I started. The kids did not know how to free play and they had to learn. I didn't have a ton of structured activities myself but it became clear quite quickly that my dck's were used to being entertained and played with. They have gotten better with more practice and I would say, my program is now 90% free play as most of our time is spent outdoors exploring and playing.