This is kind of like when providers say they love their daycare kids like their own.

I love my own kids enough to make sacrifices so I can spend all day every day with them and not put them into daycare for someone else to love and care for.

I certainly am not going to love a daycare kid like my own when their own parent isn't doing that.

I provide the necessary safe, supervised engaging environment.

The "loving" is up to the parent.