Short version of my story. I have a dcg who will be 4 in August. I have had her since she was 2. I have a few issues that I have posted about before: coming in the same dirty clothes, no having a bath often enough, etc but now its worse. She refuses to use the potty here and its quite gross. She pees in her pull up (that I insist she wears until she will use the toilet) and my whole house smells like urine all the time. Its got to the point where other parents are noticing it at pick up and drop off if she comes near them. I have her change her pull up as often as I change the diapered kiddos but it doesn't help. She pees all day long and comes back the next day in the same skirt. Always a skirt with no shorts/undies underneath just the pull up. They leak and its all over my floors and mats a couple times a day...I'm at a loss with the potty training and now her parents say just to stop trying and let her be. She is going to school in sept!
But, the bigger issue is her lies. She lies about everything and I'm at my wits end with that. I had a little one poop in the playpen and play in it during nap, gross but happens he's only 18 months old...but...she went home and told her parents that she was in a playpen and played with her poop...seriously!!! Then my little guy needed sunscreen for school so I called hubby and asked him to bring some home with him, she went home and said I told her that her sunscreen was empty and that she needed to bring more (they had brought a bottle the day before) so yesterday she decided to rip apart my foam mats because quite frankly she was being a brat...simple as that...well I told mom about it and they replaced the mats but apparently she told them she did it because another boy pinched her. She did it while the little ones were napping and the boy she accused wasn't even here!
I'm just really sick of having to explain myself when she lies about stupid stuff! I'm pretty much ready to terminate...she is my first arrival and last pick up (11,5-12 hour days even when her parents are at home). Is it wrong to terminate because I just don't like her anymore???? They aren't huge behaviour issues by any means just frustrating and time consuming coming home each night from the gym and having to answer mom's emails about her childs lies...wwyd?
Sorry so long!