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Kellyg19...soooo sorry to hear of your troubles. I've been there myself (many moons ago) and it's a bad time for you now. Believe me when I say that there will be a day when you feel better and life will be good again. I'm 13 years divorced now and blissfully single. You're at the scary part now, but just take it one day at a time

Why must you leave the home? Your income is contingent on you being there. Unless he wants to support you outright with spousal (and yup, he'd probably be ruled to do so if your livelihood was cut short because you HAD to move), would it not be better for everyone if he left? Take some time to think things over. Someone posted some very good advice....DON'T make any major, life changing decisions right now. Trust me, trust me, trust me.....this is not the frame of mind to be in for making sound decisions. Is there any chance that this could be just a 'blip'? Maybe with some counseling and soul searching on both sides, can the marriage be salvaged?

Feel better and lean very heavily on your girlfriends. That's what women do best....support each other through the s&%tstorm. Hugs to you