I have a dcg who is 4.5 years old. She is going to be starting JK in the fall, but until then, she's here full time M-F with me. She comes in underwear, but she is NOT potty trained by any means. No mention of this was made before they started with me two months ago.

After two months of accidents almost daily, I am done. I can't effectively clean her up, because that entails a)invading the body privacy of a 4 year old little girl and b)I would have to be in the bathroom with her for at least ten mins to effectively clean her up, and I have three toddlers here. No can do. It's just not safe.

Also, my play room area rug has been ruined by a feces leak.

I have decided to insist on her being in pullups until such a time that she is accident free for two weeks. Is this reasonable? Her parents sent me a pack when I complained, but she comes every morning in underwear. Her dad seemed concerned that she was in a pullup when he picked her up yesterday.

What do you think, oh wise ones? Am I doing the right thing here?