I get what you're saying. I have never cared for a child this old as I don't do school care, so I would likely feel the same way. And you are following the same policy the school will...so it makes sense.


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She cleans herself up after a poop accident. I will not touch her. She's too old for me to be touching her genitals, imo. She is very private, and I can't in good conscience step over that line. I am not comfortable with it, and she isn't either. The first time it happened, I put her in my shower. I just don't have time to do it, and I know she doesn't do a good job, but I don't know what else to do.