My almost 3 yo dck has no self help skills whatsoever! refuses to put on her own shoes, pull down her own pants to potty, use a utensil etc.! It boggles my mind, really. All my other dck rush to do things themselves, are so proud of their accomplishments and this girl just sits on the floor and whines until I help her. I have tried to encourage her, tried to show other kids doing it, tried incorporating fun song and game to see if she would attempt it, Ive even ignored her in hopes she would try. nothing. She is an only child and very babied at home, but this is really starting to grate my nerves...anyone else have a child like this?