I understand and sympathize with you. It is indeed a difficult time. I am also divorced. I only offer this piece of advice, before you make any decisions to move out etc. talk to a lawyer. Find one you are comfortable with. Do not leave your home until you get legal advice. I know it is hard to focus at this time, but your future depends on this. You have nothing to lose by getting legal advice first. I send you a huge warm hug and will also tell you that this too shall pass.