I don't know about anybody else, but when I type something or say something it's my opinion and it's honest. Nobody else ever has to agree with me, but I hope I'm helping someone along the way with an anecdote from my many (many) years of experience on this earth. I abhor phoniness, you won't get that from me!

I hope I'm never attacked on this forum and have to defend myself because I've definitely quit another forum recently due to phoniness and judgemental people. Hate that! Aren't we here to support each other? Shouldn't we all be able to express our opinions without being judged or ridiculed or made to feel small?

I have to agree with Judy on this one. I had a violent 2 year old in care years ago and I terminated her because the parents wouldn't help me get her under control. None of us should keep a child like that in care because we are supposed to be protecting all the other children and we deserve to have good children in care so that we are happy.

Dream, are the parents talking openly with you about the problem? Do you see any progress possible? Good luck!