I haven't been reading a lot of posts lately so I'm not sure what you are referring to about everyone being on edge.
I do have children misbehave as all children do, but I have to be honest and say that I don't have any children that have full fledged temper tantrums. It's a fact, and I'm sorry if it upsets people that I don't have tantrums at my daycare. Not preachy, not judgey, not trying to toot my own horn, just stating a fact.
I guess I just have been lucky over the last ten years to have non-tantrum kids. Yes they cry, get angry, need some time by themselves, try to break the rules, but I actually have never had a kid that falls to the ground and flails about.
Sorry, it's the truth. I should be allowed to state the truth without having to defend myself.
Everyone posts truths about negative things and everyone supports them.
Yet I am trying to tell the truth about a positive thing and am defending myself.
Weird.