Wow MonkeyMama I feel like I wrote this post! I have a 2 year old that as been with me for a few months and her behavior in the morning is a direct reflection of the inconsistency she has at home. I only have her for 3 days a week and the other 4 she gets tossed between 2 Grandmas, Aunts, etc...she also goes to bed, when she is at home with her parents, between 10:30 and 11:30pm and is up by 6am?!?! I have mentioned to parents many times that she has had "rough" mornings and seemed "very tired" but what else can I do? They want a full time spot and I will not give it because I can not handle every drop off, every morning, being a completely drama fest....3 days is enough for me!