At what point are you an active bystander, though? That's the problem I have. If you know that someone has too many children in her care, and then something happens, would you feel responsible because you didn't do anything to ensure the safety of the children?

I had a problem last year where I regularly saw a provider at the park that would allow very small children out of her sight. I would have felt HORRIBLE if anything happened to the kids and I did nothing. You know what I mean?

It's not about getting another provider in trouble. It's a question of whether the kids are safe. As I say to the children I care for, "are you telling me to get Billy IN to trouble, or are you telling me to get him OUT of trouble?".