If I was the caregiver I'd suggest you keep the child home if there is A safety concern. I can't hold back a child from their father. And I wouldn't want to be put in the situation to begin with. Knowing this story, as the caregiver, I may refuse to take the child for the day.

As a single mother with a crazy ex husband I would not take my child to care. I would, instead, take the day to file a restraining order based on trespassing and threatening. At least then I'd have some sort of document to take to the daycare so they would not release the child.

What a horrible situation.