Can you believe this?

[Sandbox Sally]

There are many reasons for split parents to avoid one another, ie abuse, emotional turmoil (that can affect the parent to the point of it briefly interfering with their parenting).

Of course, you have every right to refuse to be the drop off point, but I can think of many things that would be beneficial to the child by the parents not having any interaction. I don't think this move is childish, rather, probably a very grown up and responsible decision.

I'd do it in a heartbeat. I am pro-anything that makes life easier for a solo parent.