Well if it is attention the child wants then he will surely get it - the way we often deal with a child that is biting works for hitting or any aggressive behaviour and that is shadowing. That means when you move child moves and if you stay put child stays put. So if you have to leave the room to get a drink or change a diaper then the child has to accompany you. If you go to the bathroom child must sit outside the door with his hand under so you can tell he is still there. It generally gets old pretty fast and especially because whatever he was playing with is not protected while you are gone so he loses out on all fronts. After a day or so of that he gets to earn privileges back - ie no aggressive behaviour at all while you are watching and then he earns the right to stay with the kids while you get a drink or something really quick. Loses it just as fast though for an offence.
They should have paid before going on vacation and you should have told them the consequences of not paying before they left. With online now no excuses as you can pay from anywhere even on vacations. Tell them pay is due tomorrow or no care no excuses.

































Reply With Quote


