So sorry to hear you are going through this Skysue. My first husband was always about himself. I was too young to really realize I deserved better and had old fashioned ideas about having to sacrifice myself so that my husband would be happy. Stupid, stupid, stupid.
Has your hubby always been this way or is this new behaviour for him. The wanting sex all the time could be from his feeling insecure about his age and his body image. Or his is just selfish.
The fact that he does nothing for you and cares little for your feelings is a huge red flag that something is up. I wouldn't speculate to what as you know him and your marriage best except to say it sounds like resentment to me.
Is there someone you can talk to about this? Is your husband approachable about discussing how you feel? Can you have someone take the kids so you can have a uninterrupted talk? This must be so disheartening for you. Please do not blame yourself or get down on yourself. Let us know how you are doing and if you like you can PM me for a more private chat. Take care hon

































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