Quote Originally Posted by 1kidmama View Post
My daycare lady says that all daycare children must be "respectful of quiet time" she never forces them to sleep, but they must lay down with the blanket and stuffy... for 2 hours....

My son usually falls asleep like 10 min. into the book he reads (he is 2.5 and she gives him a picture book in his bed) I want the nap phased out, and she says no..he doesn't wake until 4 o'clock..(She starts turning on lights and stuff at 3:15, but won't make him wake up.....)

She says even her 4 year old follows the same thing, and she claims he goes to bed early like 8pm... Really? I can't get him into bed before 11 if he naps....
Sounds to me like you need to find new daycare.

If the policies and rules your current provider has isn't working for you, why would you expect her to change what works for her in her home for her business just because it isn't working for you??

If she requires nap time and you don't want your child napping then the solution is super simple......

.....find a provider who doesn't have a required quiet/rest/nap time.