I still have families who haven't told me when they are taking their vacation this Summer... is this normal? Is it rude for me to ask when they're taking their vacation? The reason I want to know is that if I'm going to be down 1 or 2 then I can plan special outings, but if I don't know until the last minute, then I won't be able to plan anything. I find it kinda funny that parents want to know months in advance when we will be on vacation, but don't seem to even think about telling us when they will be away lol.