You know (daycarewhisperer) I usually agree with you, but in this instance I don't. My child was not planned in the least...In fact I was on bc pills. When I got pregnant I had only been seeing my now husband for 3 months, I know you have at least one child because I have seen you post about him on Facebook. So I cannot believe you typed those words.
And guess what? We didn't have everything when he was born, but we tried our best...He went to a SAHM who charged $25.00/day, but she treated him kindly and he was happy there.
And even though we make over 100 K a year, would I be able to afford daycare now, no..sadly... (If I had to I would do something though I am sure---). And I have medical needs...Not because I don't love my kid, but because my husband is drowning in student debt that he had to accrue because his family didn't plan...yet they are very kind for the most part...
Would I change anything, not for the world, dealing with ds has made me more aware of the gaping holes in the system and the lack of support that exists when you are parenting and have a disability...(And I do not mean monetary)
Does the lack of "cash" make me a bad parent. no. Absolutely no.
I am shocked.




































