Well basically all I was originally saying was that with the current level of social assistance programs out there it seems to encourage young people to have kids because its a meal ticket .... They don't have to work and everything is handed to them free or almost free ... That'll what I was trying to get at .... Not about paving roads and private schools .... But about kids purposely having children to get the subsidies !!!! That's all !!!!! Oh by the way my first husband was abusive too !!!