Oh, my rule is EXACTLY your rule and I withhold the bread items until the end in my tiniest boy since that's all he eats then he's full. Nope, he needs the protein and veggie/fruits first and sometimes he doesn't get the bread at all, it goes away if he's going too slowly. He's 1 year old and he's going to know my rules are without exception or negotiations before he's 2. At home he always wins. Not here. My rules are for ALL the children. Of course, his parents know and agree with all of this.