How does everyone deal with bullying at their daycare?
My daughter is the issue (3.5 yrs). She has her best friend at daycare (3.5 dcb) and the two of them exclude others. At first it wasn't an issue as they were just trying to keep the babies away from what they were doing etc. But then I had other older children join us and they weren't/aren't very welcoming.
This week my daughter's friend is away on vac and she is insistent she isn't going to play with the 3 yo dcg. She yells things like "I don't want to see her" or "I don't want to play with you" etc. I have been trying to help her develop some empathy (e.g. how do you think that makes dcg feels when you say you don't want to play with her?) however this of course is a longer term goal. She gets consequenced for her behaviour e.g sits out if she can't play nicely with everyone or looses certain toys if she can't share with others etc. Other ideas?
Usually this is more in the morning and she warms up to the other children as the day moves along. she is also learning some things as a result of her behaviour e.g. 3 yo dcg didn't want to play a game with her and I reflected back on how my daughter spoke to her this morning.