I so agree Momof4! I love people, but really hate having to turn people away because I feel like I am being mean (and I get nervous in case I can't fill a spot!). But an empty spot is probably better than a bad apple! I'm currently counting down to the start of school due to a mean child in my care. Granted she is 4 years old and all my others are under 2 so she is likely board, but I will be glad when she is gone and all my newbies will hopefully be around the same age Thankfully her family is on board with discipline and corrective measures, but my days are so stressful when she is here.