Need advice on how to handle a mother of a child in my daycare please!

[Sarah]

Integration with mommy around should not take 8 weeks. This doesn't make senseIt looks to me like "mom" has separation anxiety and his passing it to her daughter.

I really encourage integration with mommy spending time with me, so the child feels that mommy likes the provider, but within a week not over 8 weeks.

My suggestion is to sit with mommy and her daughter and present her with an integration schedule for this week, a firm one.

For exemple:
day 1 she comes 30 minutes before and leaves
day 2 she comes 25 minutes before and leaves
day 3 she comes 20 minutes before and leaves
day 4 she comes 10 minutes before and leaves
day 5 she comes and leaves right away

Good luck with this!