Need advice on how to handle a mother of a child in my daycare please!

[clep]

I would not allow any parent in my home before I am open. I often let my parents know that drop offs should be quick like a bandaid. If the band aid is being pulled slowly for a long time things are only worse for the child. Mom needs to give a quick kiss, hug, I love you and have a great day with a smile. Bye bye. I have had this often with parents that think hugging the child while they are crying for twenty min is good for the child. Once I explain it quickly and then let them know how things will change for their child they try it every time. After things go well with that and a few other suggestions, they start to have faith in me and usually ask now how to go about bettering situations with their child. It just sucks when they ask and leave it cause my idea takes too much work.