FYI- mom has been questioning dcb about what he doesn't like about dc when he started making a big deal about coming in the mornings because he wanted to be with her. She has a hard time seeing that the issue isn't the daycare per say but everything else happening right now e.g their divorce, the time he has to spend away from each parent (shared custody) and this was happening the week they sold their house (and the last thing that tied his parents together as a family aside from the kids).